Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Man's Search for Meaning

Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl is a book I've been wanting to read for awhile. (A few months ago, I started--but didn't finish--an awesome book called Character is Destiny: Inspiring Stories Every Young Person Should Know and Every Adult Should Remember by John McCain. I want to go back and finish that book, but in the meantime, I wrote down the names of those whose stories I read and wanted to learn more about. Viktor Frankl was one of them.) Viktor Frankl was a psychiatrist who was in four different concentration camps during the Holocaust.  Even before his time in the camps, he had developed a theory about the importance of finding meaning our lives. Once he spent time in the camps, he realized that even in suffering, we can choose to find meaning in our lives and move forward with purpose.

This was a really beautiful book. I am always completely shocked and amazed by what the Holocaust victims had to go through and how they endured, and Viktor Frankl's experiences are no exception. This book was super deep at times and used a lot of psychiatric vocabulary that I was not familiar with, so I'm sure the book would have been even better if I were smarter. :) I also felt like the book was not organized in a super logical way but was more like a stream of consciousness. But despite this, I really enjoyed the read and was touched and inspired by the messages. I'm glad I read it and think it was an important and meaningful read. Although there are so many more I'm not going to include, here are some favorite quotes I want to remember:

  • "We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of human freedoms--to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."
  • "There was no need to be ashamed of tears, for tears bore witness that a man had the greatest of courage, the courage to suffer."
  • "A man who became conscious of the responsibility he bears toward a human being who affectionately waits for him, or to an unfinished work, will never be able to throw away his life. He knows the 'why' for his existence, and will be able to bear almost any 'how.'"
  • "We must never forget that we may also find meaning in life even when confronted with a hopeless situation, when facing a fate that cannot be changed....When we are no longer able to change a situation--just think of an incurable disease such as an inoperable cancer--we are challenged to change ourselves."
  • "It is one of the basic tenants of logotherapy that man's main concern is not to gain pleasure or to avoid pain but rather to see a meaning in his life. That is why man is even ready to suffer, on the condition, to be sure, that his suffering has a meaning. But let me make it perfectly clear that in no way is suffering necessary to find meaning. I only insist that meaning is possible even in spite of suffering."
  • "Researchers at the Yale University School of Medicine 'have been impressed by the number of prisoners of ward of the Vietnam war who explicitly claimed that although their captivity was extraordinarily stressful--filled with torture, disease, malnutrition, and solitary confinement--they nevertheless...benefited from the captivity experience, seeing it as a growth experience.'"
  • "Most important, he realized that, no matter what happened, he retained the freedom to choose how to respond to his suffering. He saw this not merely as an option but as his and every person's responsibility to choose 'the way in which he bears his burden.'"
  • "I do not forget any good deed done to me, and I do not carry a grudge for a bad one."


Rating: * * (2/3 = Liked it)

Wednesday, March 11, 2015

Brown Girl Dreaming

Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson is one of the 2015 Newbery Honor books. It is a memoir/autobiography--the true story of Jacqueline's childhood. It follows Jacqueline and her family in Ohio, then South Carolina, then New York during the 60s and 70s. The book shares her relationships with family members, what it was like to grow up during the Civil Rights era, and how she found she wanted to be a writer.

This book was written in verse and was beautifully written. (I debated calling this a "loved it," but I don't know if it quite made it there--but I really, really liked the book.) It was so interesting to follow Jacqueline's life, and having the story in verse made it even more vivid and compelling. I especially loved the chapter "The Selfish Giant" partway through where Jacqueline shares with her class a story she memorized. Her classmates are all amazed she could do that, and she doesn't know how to explain--"How can I explain to anyone that stories are like air to me,/ I breathe them in and let them out/ over and over again." Then her teacher compliments her as well, and Jacqueline says, "And I know now/...Words are my brilliance." Earlier in the book, Jacqueline compared herself to her siblings and wasn't as good as them in certain things--but here she found that she had her own gift. I just loved that since she grew up to be an incredible author who has won the Newbery honor with 4 different books.

Rating: * * (2/3 = Liked it)

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

One Came Home

One Came Home by Amy Timberlake was a Newbery Honor book in 2014, so I found it and started reading it last year. I lost interest and returned it to the library, but then last week, my sister Molly recommended the book to me after reading it in her Children's Lit class. So, I got it back from the library and gave it another shot. The book is about Georgie Burkhardt in 1870s Wisconsin. Georgie's sister Agatha runs off with a pack of pigeoners, and soon after, an unidentifiable body is found wearing Agatha's ball gown. Georgie won't believe that Agatha is truly dead and sets out on a journey of her own to find the truth.

I'm glad I gave the book another chance because it was an interesting story once I got more into it. The book was very well written with details that really let you imagine the setting and characters. It was a mystery mixed with historical fiction, which made the book unique and fun. I liked trying to figure out what would happen. Everything came together a little too quickly in the end, and something I had hoped for didn't happen, but I still enjoyed the read. Georgie was a strong, likable character, and it was fun to read the book through her perspective.

* * (2/3 = Liked it)